You know that awful moment when your parents hit you with the classic line: “Look at Priya, she got into medical school. And you? Still figuring out life?” Yeah, same. It’s like our families are competing for the World’s Best Comparator Award.
But listen, it’s not you. Seriously. Families just love doing this comparison thing like it’s an Olympic sport. And guess what? We’re not here to compete. We’re here to THRIVE.
So, if you’re tired of being compared to cousins, neighbors, or that random girl from your building who apparently already owns a startup , here’s your survival guide:
1. Master the Art of the Inner Eye-Roll
First of all, perfect your inner eye-roll. Because honestly, what even is this nonsense? Whenever someone compares you to another person, just mentally roll your eyes and think, “I’m literally vibing on a whole different level.” Trust me, it helps.
2. Build Your Own Hype Squad
Friends who gas you up are the real MVPs. Create a group chat where you all share your wins, no matter how tiny. Like, “Finished a whole book in a day!” or “Finally learned to cook pasta without burning it!” Celebrate YOU. Because if you don’t, who will?
3. Serve Them Some Savage Comebacks (Politely)
Alright, we’re not here to burn bridges but… sometimes a little polite sass is necessary. When your mom says, “Why aren’t you like Riya who’s already a lawyer?” Respond with, “Because I’m busy being the best version of me. Stay tuned!”
4. Set Your Own Freakin’ Goals
If you’re constantly being compared to someone else’s goals, here’s a wild idea: Make your own! What do YOU want? Becoming a famous artist? Traveling the world? Whatever it is, focus on your path and let others worry about their own.
5. Laugh It Off, Babe
When life gives you comparisons, laugh at them. Sometimes, humor is the best armor. Imagine yourself as the CEO of I Don’t Care Inc. It sounds silly, but it’ll help you detach from the drama.
6. Prove Them Wrong… or Not. Who Cares?
Okay, so here’s the thing. You don’t have to prove anyone wrong. But if you do, do it for YOU. Focus on your growth, your happiness, and your dreams. Because at the end of the day, the only opinion that matters is your own.
Remember, girl, you’re a whole masterpiece in progress. Just because your journey looks different doesn’t mean it’s any less amazing.
So, next time someone tries to compare you to someone else, just smile, sip your coffee, and keep slaying. You got this!