Let’s be real, dating in the 2020s is basically a chaotic mix of ghosting, gaslighting, and playing the “who-texts-first” game like it’s an Olympic sport. But here’s the thing: confident girls? They don’t just survive the dating game, they run it.
If you’re tired of overanalyzing texts, settling for bare-minimum effort, or getting emotionally invested in guys who “aren’t ready for a relationship” (ugh, classic), then it’s time for a glow-up. Here are 8 things confident girls do differently in dating, and trust me, once you start doing them, your love life will never be the same.
1. They Don’t Chase, They Attract
Confident girls know they are the prize, not the ones begging for attention. They don’t double-text, they don’t stalk Venmo transactions for clues, and they definitely don’t chase emotionally unavailable guys like it’s a full-time job. They let people show up for them, and if someone isn’t stepping up? Bye.
Your move: If you feel like you’re always the one initiating, take a step back. The right person will meet you halfway.
2. They Have a Life Outside of Dating
Nothing screams confidence like having a full, exciting life that doesn’t revolve around someone else. Confident girls are busy, whether it’s chasing career goals, traveling, hitting the gym, or starting a side hustle. They don’t wait around for texts; they’re too booked and busy.
Your move: If you catch yourself refreshing Instagram to see if he watched your story, it’s time for a new hobby.
3. They Set Standards (and Stick to Them)
Standards? Non-negotiable. Confident girls know exactly what they deserve and won’t settle for less. They don’t entertain walking red flags, situationships, or men whose idea of romance is a late-night “wyd?” text.
Your move: Make a list of your non-negotiables. If someone isn’t meeting them, don’t waste your time trying to “fix” them.
4. They Say “No” Without Feeling Guilty
People-pleasing? Never heard of it. Confident girls don’t agree to last-minute plans just to seem “chill,” they don’t accept disrespect, and they certainly don’t stay in uncomfortable situations out of politeness.
Your move: Practice saying “no” with zero explanation. You don’t owe anyone your time or energy.
5. They Don’t Play Games (But They Know the Game)
There’s a difference between being strategic and being manipulative. Confident girls don’t ghost or breadcrumb, but they do understand the power of mystery. They aren’t available 24/7, they don’t overshare too soon, and they let people earn their energy.
Your move: Keep a little mystery. You don’t need to spill your entire life story on date one.
6. They Walk Away When They’re Not Valued
If a guy starts acting distant, stops putting in effort, or suddenly “needs space,” a confident girl doesn’t beg. She doesn’t wait for closure, she is the closure. She walks away gracefully, knowing she deserves better.
Your move: The next time you feel disrespected, practice the art of detachment. You will never regret choosing yourself.
7. They Prioritize Themselves (And It’s Magnetic)
Confident girls put themselves first, mentally, physically, and emotionally. They invest in their self-care, glow-up, and overall happiness. And guess what? That kind of energy is irresistible.
Your move: Treat yourself like the main character. Start romanticizing your life, not just the idea of being in one with someone else.
8. They Invest in Their Confidence (Literally)
Let’s be honest, confidence isn’t just a mindset, it’s a lifestyle. Confident girls invest in things that make them feel good, whether it’s therapy, fitness, fashion, or the ultimate secret weapon: The LuxeGlow Confidence Kit.
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Ready to Level Up?
Confidence in dating isn’t about tricks or tactics, it’s about knowing your worth and refusing to settle for anything less. Start implementing these eight game-changing habits, and watch how your dating life transforms.
Now tell me, which one are you working on first? Drop a comment below or DM me on Instagram (@YourHandle) and let’s chat!