Ladies, let’s be real, texting is the modern love language. Whether it’s that cute guy from Hinge, your situationship who refuses to commit, or your forever crush who takes 7-10 business days to reply, the way you text can make or break your vibe. And trust me, nothing kills the mood faster than dry texting or sending desperate “??” follow-ups.
If you want to be the girl who leaves him thinking about you all day, here are seven texting habits that will instantly make you more attractive. Buckle up, because we’re about to turn your phone into a weapon of mass seduction.
1. Stop Replying Instantly
I know, I know, it’s tempting to reply within 0.2 seconds when you see their name pop up. But let’s be honest, do you really want to scream “I HAVE NOTHING ELSE GOING ON”? Instead, take your time. Make him wonder. Let him stew in his own thoughts like a contestant on a reality show waiting for the final rose.
Pro Tip: If you’re too impatient, send yourself a text first and reply to that instead.
2. Keep It Short & Sweet
Over-explaining? Huge no. Sending paragraphs? . Keep your messages short, playful, and a little mysterious. Think “I’ll tell you later” or “Wouldn’t you like to know?”. Mystery = power. Power = attractive.
Example: Him: “What are you doing?” You: “Causing trouble. You? “
Boom. Now he’s intrigued.
3. Use More Emojis & Less Punctuation
Texting is an art, and emojis are your paintbrush. They add personality, playfulness, and just the right amount of I’m-cute-but-I’ll-ruin-you energy. Stick to a mix of flirty and sweet to keep the balance. But please, for the love of texting etiquette, don’t overuse them. One well-placed emoji = power move. Fifty in a row = middle school energy.
4. Master The Power of the Double Text (But Use Sparingly)
Contrary to popular belief, double texting isn’t always bad. It’s all about how you do it. If he’s gone MIA for 24+ hours (rude), instead of texting “hey” (boring) or “???” (desperate), hit him with something casual yet attention-grabbing.
Example: “Just saw someone who looks exactly like you… but taller. “
Or…
“So do I win the ‘left on read’ award, or is there competition? “
It’s witty, it’s fun, and it calls him out without looking pressed.
5. Leave Him on Read (Strategically)
Sometimes, the best response is no response (at least for a while). If the convo is getting repetitive, let him sit with his last text for a bit. Make him check his phone 47 times, wondering what you are up to. The more he thinks about you, the more invested he gets.
Key Rule: Don’t overdo it. If you leave him on read for too long, he might just assume you’re not interested and move on.
6. Have a Signature Sign-Off
Want to be unforgettable? End your convos with a little something special that makes him smile. Maybe it’s “Stay out of trouble, trouble ” or “Don’t miss me too much ”.
It creates a texting ritual that makes him look forward to your next message.
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Final Thoughts: Are You Ready to Level Up?
Texting is all about energy, and when you bring confidence, playfulness, and a little bit of mystery, you instantly become 10x more attractive. So, are you ready to try these out?
Tell me in the comments: Which texting habit are you guilty of? And which one are you trying first? Let’s chat!