Okay, bestie, let’s cut to the chase. If you’re reading this, you probably have a little inkling that something in your relationship is off. Maybe he texts back with the speed of a sloth , or maybe your gut is screaming, “GIRL, RUN!” But hey, love (or whatever this is) can be blinding.
So, before you waste any more time romanticizing a guy who doesn’t even know your coffee order, let’s dive into the 10 dead-giveaway signs that you’re settling for the wrong guy.
1. He’s as Emotionally Available as a Brick Wall
If trying to get him to open up feels like you’re decoding ancient hieroglyphics, sis, you’re not his therapist. You deserve a partner, not a project.
2. You Make Excuses for Him Like It’s Your Full-Time Job
“Oh, he’s just bad at texting.” “He’s super busy.” “He didn’t mean it like that.” STOP. If you have to constantly justify his behavior, you already know he ain’t it.
3. Your Friends Secretly Hate Him (Or Not So Secretly)
If your besties cringe every time you bring him up, it’s not because they’re jealous. They see the red flags you’re ignoring, babe.
4. He’s More Into Himself Than He Is Into You
If he loves his own reflection more than he loves supporting your dreams, he’s dating himself, not you.
5. You’re Always the One Making the Effort
Are you the one planning every date, initiating every convo, and basically keeping the relationship alive? Relationships are a two-way street, not a one-woman show.
6. He Talks a Big Game but Never Follows Through
Empty promises, anyone? If his words say he cares but his actions scream “meh,” he’s all talk, no commitment.
7. You Feel Drained Instead of Energized
The right relationship should feel like a power-up, not a slow battery drain. If he’s sucking the life out of you, that’s a hard NO.
8. Your Goals and Values Don’t Align
Love doesn’t fix fundamental incompatibilities. If you want a future of traveling the world and he can’t even plan a weekend getaway, we have a problem.
9. He Makes You Feel “Not Good Enough”
If you’re constantly doubting your worth because of how he treats you, this isn’t love, it’s manipulation.
10. You KNOW You Deserve Better
If deep down you already know this isn’t it, trust yourself. You don’t need a sign from the universe when the signs are this obvious!
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Final Thoughts: Drop Him & Reclaim Your Power!
You’re too smart, too beautiful, and too freaking fabulous to waste your time on someone who doesn’t see your worth. Drop the dead weight and make room for someone who actually deserves you.
Got a story about that ex you finally let go of? Spill the tea in the comments! And don’t forget to share this with your besties who need to read this!