Alright, ladies, let’s get one thing straight, texting a guy shouldn’t feel like solving a quantum physics equation. But let’s be real, sometimes it does. One wrong emoji and he’s suddenly “busy.” One too many exclamation points, and you’re in the dreaded try-hard zone. The struggle is real.
But don’t worry, I got you. If you want to keep him hooked (without looking desperate), you need to master the art of texting. And lucky for you, I’ve cracked the code.
Here are **eight texts that will make him obsessed with you, **yes, the kind that will have him checking his phone every five minutes like his life depends on it.
1. The “I Bet You Can’t…” Text
Example: “I bet you can’t guess what I’m doing right now…”
Men love a challenge. It’s in their DNA. This text instantly piques his curiosity, making him desperate to know the answer. And if he guesses wrong? Even better, you get to tease him a little. Flirty, fun, and keeps the convo going.
2. The “Inside Joke” Text
Example: “Not me walking past that pizza place and thinking about your tragic pineapple-on-pizza take… “
Dropping an inside joke reminds him of your connection. It’s subtle, effortless, and makes him feel like you share something special. Plus, it triggers nostalgia, science says that’s a major bonding tool.
3. The “Random Thought” Text
Example: “If we were in a zombie apocalypse, do you think we’d survive? Be honest. “
A little randomness goes a long way. It makes you seem unpredictable (aka interesting), which is exactly what keeps guys engaged. No dry “wyd?” texts here, sis.
4. The “Vague But Mysterious” Text
Example: “OMG, you won’t believe what just happened…”
This is elite-level texting. You’re giving him just enough to keep him intrigued but not enough to satisfy his curiosity. He has no choice but to ask, “What happened??” Boom. Hooked.
5. The “I Appreciate You” Text
Example: “Hey, just wanted to say I really appreciate how you [insert something he did]. It didn’t go unnoticed. “
Men love recognition, but they rarely get it. This text makes him feel seen and valued, which, newsflash, is majorly attractive. Just don’t overdo it, or it loses its magic.
6. The “Confidence Queen” Text
Example: “Just a reminder: I’m cute, hilarious, and an actual catch. That is all. “
A little self-hype? Absolutely necessary. This shows you have standards and confidence, which is like catnip for men. Bonus: It subtly reminds him that you’re a prize, and he’s lucky to be texting you.
7. The “Casual Date Drop” Text
Example: “Just found the cutest little coffee shop. You’d love it.”
No pressure, no desperation, just an open-ended hint that lets him take the lead. If he’s interested, he’ll jump at the opportunity. If he doesn’t? On to the next, queen.
8. The “Goodnight Tease” Text
Example: “Sweet dreams! Hope I don’t show up in them and distract you all night. “
This one is gold. It plants a seed in his mind before bed (a time when people are most emotionally vulnerable). Plus, it keeps things playful and flirty.
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So, which of these texts are you trying first? Drop a comment below or DM me if you need custom texting advice (because let’s be honest, we’ve all been there). Happy texting, queen!