Alright, Gen Z queens, let’s talk first dates. You’ve swiped, matched, and survived the small talk. Now you’re sitting across from him, sipping your overpriced oat milk latte, wondering: Does he actually like me? Or worse… Will he ghost me before I even post the fit check?
Fear not. If you’re tired of first dates that lead to radio silence (or, God forbid, the dreaded “had a great time!” text with zero follow-up), I’ve got you. Here are seven power moves to make him crave date number two. No weird games, just straight-up main character energy.
1. Dress Like You, But the Best Version of You
Forget trying to be what you think he wants. The ultimate attraction hack? Confidence. Wear that outfit that makes you feel like a walking Pinterest board. Whether it’s a sleek all-black moment or a chaotic mix of Y2K nostalgia, own it. Because when you feel good, you radiate unbothered baddie vibes, and trust me, that’s magnetic.
2. Have a Signature Scent (That Lingers in His Brain Like an Addictive TikTok Song)
Ever had a whiff of a scent and instantly got hit with a memory? Exactly. A signature scent isn’t just about smelling good, it’s about imprinting yourself into his subconscious like a walking, talking daydream. Go for something sultry but effortless (think vanilla-musk-coconut or citrusy florals). Bonus: When he catches a whiff of something similar later, he’ll immediately think of you.
3. Show Genuine Interest (But Don’t Interview Him)
We all know the guy who talks about himself for 47 minutes straight (red flag). But here’s the thing: People love talking about themselves. So, be that rare gem who actually listens. Ask engaging questions:
- “What’s something random you’re obsessed with right now?”
- “What’s the most unhinged thing on your bucket list?”
Make it fun. Make it unpredictable. Leave him wanting more.
4. Master the Art of the Unexpected Compliment
Every guy has heard, “You’re so funny” or “Nice hair.” Snooze. If you want to be unforgettable, hit him with a compliment he’s never heard before:
- “You have really great taste in memes.”
- “Your Spotify Wrapped must be elite.”
- “I love how passionate you get when you talk about [insert niche hobby].”
Watch him light up like he just hit 1M views on a thirst trap.
5. Be Playfully Mysterious (But Not in a Cringe Way)
The key? Give just enough but not everything. Drop an intriguing story but don’t spill all the details. Tease something exciting you’re doing next weekend but keep it vague. Mystery = instant intrigue.
Example: Him: “So what do you do for fun?” You: “Oh, I have a weirdly specific hobby, but you’ll have to wait ‘til next time to find out.”
Boom. Now he needs that second date.
6. Make a Subtle Power Move
Body language is your BFF. Instead of sitting stiffly, lean in just a bit when he talks. Hold eye contact one second longer than usual. And, this one’s elite, lightly touch his arm when laughing at a joke (only if it feels natural). These micro-moves create subconscious chemistry, making him feel the connection without even realizing why.
7. Leave Him with a Memory He Can’t Shake
Here’s the ultimate second-date hack: Give him a reason to think about you afterward. Maybe it’s a hilarious inside joke from the night. Maybe it’s a tiny challenge like, “Okay, next time we hang out, you have to prove you’re actually good at bowling.”
Or maybe… it’s your killer lip gloss.
Speaking of Unforgettable… Meet the Game-Changer for First Date Confidence
If there’s one product every Gen Z girl needs in her date-night arsenal, it’s a lip gloss that looks bomb, feels amazing, and lasts longer than his attention span. Enter: Fenty Beauty Gloss Bomb.
- Ultra-glossy but not sticky (because we don’t do 2010s hair-stuck-in-lipgloss disasters)
- Hydrating AF (so your lips stay soft & kiss-ready)
- Universally flattering shades (because Rihanna knows what’s up)
Seriously, this gloss isn’t just makeup, it’s a power move. And if you wanna leave him thinking about that second date every time he sees lips, this is the secret weapon.
The Final Move: Let Him Chase You
You crushed the first date. Now what? Simple: Let him come to you. If he’s into you, he’ll make it happen. And if he doesn’t? That’s not your problem, because, let’s be real, you’ve got options.
So, what’s your go-to move for securing a second date? Drop it in the comments! And if you wanna glow up your date-night vibe, grab that Gloss Bomb before your next big night out.