Alright, girl. So you’ve been texting this guy, snapping cute selfies, even throwing the occasional ‘lol’ his way. But somehow, Mr. Confused is out here thinking you’re not into him. And you’re like, “Dude, what?”
But what if… it’s you? Don’t freak out! We’ve all accidentally sent the wrong signals before. So, let’s dive into the 7 things you’re doing that probably make him think you’d rather eat cold pizza alone than hang with him. (Spoiler: None of this means you actually have to change who you are. Just… be aware, babe!)
1. You’re Giving Dry Text Energy
You might be thinking you’re being chill and mysterious, but he’s reading your one-word responses like, “K” and “Yeah” as code for “Leave me alone, peasant.” No need to write him an essay, but girl, sprinkle in some emojis, some life, some… personality!
2. You’re Always ‘Too Busy’
We get it, your schedule looks like a horror movie – packed and terrifying. But if you’re constantly hitting him with “I’m busy” or “Maybe next time,” he’s gonna think you’re trying to dodge him harder than your 8 AM classes. If you’re interested, find a minute to send him a funny TikTok or something. It’s the little things!
3. You’re Avoiding Eye Contact
Oh honey, if you’re looking everywhere BUT at him, he’s not going to feel the vibe. Even if you’re nervous or shy, a few seconds of eye contact can feel like a thousand words. And hopefully, they’re the right words.
4. Your Social Media Is A Mystery
If he’s tryna get to know you but your Instagram looks like a cryptic art project with zero personal posts… yeah, that’s confusing. You don’t have to plaster his feed with selfies, but if you’re showing more love to your cat than him, he might get the wrong idea.
5. You’re Keeping Things Too Casual
It’s cool to play it cool, but if you’re always talking to him like he’s just another buddy from math class, he’s going to think you put him straight in the friendzone. A compliment here, a flirty joke there – give him something to work with!
6. You Flake More Than A Bad Skincare Routine
If you’re canceling plans left and right, even for legit reasons, he’s going to assume you’re just not into him. Reschedule, girl! If you have to ditch, let him know you want to make it up to him. (And no, a lazy “Sorry, can’t make it” text doesn’t count.)
7. You’re Leaving Him On Read
Oof, the classic. You might be busy or just forgot to reply (it happens!), but if you’re consistently ghosting his texts, he’s gonna assume he’s about as interesting to you as a brick wall.
So, What’s The Fix?
Girl, communication is key. You don’t have to be all “I LOVE YOU” on the first date. Just… be real. Show you’re interested if you are. And if you’re not? Well, now you know how to make it crystal clear.
Now go forth and flirt like the confident, radiant queen you are!
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