Ladies, let’s be real: we don’t just want to be a passing thought, we want to be THE thought. The one that pops into his head during work meetings, gym sessions, and those 3 AM “why am I awake?” moments. So, if you’re ready to take up permanent residence in his mind (rent-free, obviously), it’s time to master the art of texting.
1. The “Accidental” Mystery Text
*”OMG, I can’t believe that happened last night…”
(No context. No explanation. Let the mystery marinate.)*
Why it works: Curiosity is a powerful drug. He’ll be DYING to know what happened, and why he wasn’t there for it. Was it scandalous? Fun? Dangerous? Who knows? You do. And now he has to find out.
2. The Subtle Compliment Text
*”I don’t know if I’ve said this, but you seriously have the best smile. Like, it’s illegal.”
Why it works: Flattery with a dash of humor is irresistible. He’ll be grinning like an idiot every time he thinks about it, which, spoiler, will be often.
3. The “Oops, You Caught Me Thinking About You” Text
*”I just saw someone who looked like you… but obviously not as cute.”
Why it works: It’s cheeky and playful but also a casual confession that he’s on your mind. Instant ego boost for him, effortless charm for you.
4. The Inside Joke Reminder
*”Remember when we said we’d totally survive a zombie apocalypse together? I still think you’d be the first one bitten. Just saying.”
Why it works: Inside jokes build connection, and reminding him of shared moments makes him feel like you’re already a duo. Bonus points if it’s a little flirty roast, keeps things spicy.
5. The Casual “I’m Busy but Thinking of You” Text
*”Running around today but just saw something that reminded me of you. Made me smile. :)”
Why it works: It’s low-pressure but sweet, and it drops a subtle hint that he’s in your thoughts. He’ll start wondering what it was, and probably what you’re up to.
6. The Future Plan Teaser
*”We should totally hit that new rooftop bar soon. You’d love the vibe.”
Why it works: It’s casual but confident. You’re planting the seed for a hangout, which makes him picture spending time with you. Visualization = obsession.
7. The “Oops, Wrong Person” Text
*”Can’t wait for tonight… oh wait, wrong person. Or was it? ;)”
Why it works: It’s playful, slightly mischievous, and opens the door for him to ask, “Wait, what’s happening tonight?” Boom. He’s hooked.
Pro Tip: Timing is everything. Send these when he least expects it, late morning, mid-afternoon, or even a random evening. Keep it unpredictable. Keep it fun. Keep him guessing.
So go ahead, light up his phone and his mind. These texts are your secret weapon to living rent-free in his head. Use them wisely, and remember, confidence is your superpower.
Now, tell me… which one are you trying first?