Alright, girl, let’s be real. You’re fabulous, gorgeous, and have the vibe of a boss. But suddenly, Mr. Hot Stuff over there is giving you the dry “lol” instead of the paragraphs he used to write about how your smile makes his day. Ugh, the AUDACITY. But guess what? It’s his loss if he’s slipping away. But if you wanna pull him back like the pro you are, I’ve got you covered. Here’s how to make him chase you like you’re the last ticket to a sold-out Taylor Swift concert. (Yeah, it’s THAT serious!)
1. Go M.I.A. Like a Mysterious Queen
If you’ve been giving him 24/7 access to your time, it’s time to hit him with a little where-did-she-go magic. No, you don’t need to block him. Just… be less available. Miss a few texts, don’t respond immediately. Leave him wondering, “What’s she doing?” (Spoiler: Just living your fabulous life, duh.)
2. Level Up Your Glow-Up Game
Time to remind him why he was head over heels in the first place. Switch up your style, drop some fire selfies, or just show off your fierce confidence. It’s not even about him, it’s about you loving yourself so much that he can’t help but feel the FOMO.
3. Show Him You’ve Got Options
Nothing says “you better try harder” like a little friendly competition. Post about your girls’ night out, casually mention that new guy from the gym who’s been making you laugh. (You don’t owe him exclusivity if he’s acting like you’re an afterthought!)
4. Be Unbothered. Like, Seriously
The best revenge? Happiness. When he sees you thriving without him, it’s gonna hit him where it hurts. Don’t fake being okay, actually be okay. Because guess what? You’re a whole vibe, with or without his attention.
5. Drop Some Strategic Compliments
This one’s a little sneaky, but hey, we’re playing chess, not checkers. Compliment him on something low-key but meaningful, like his ambition or creativity. Then pull back a little. He’ll be replaying that compliment like it’s his new favorite song.
6. Set Boundaries and Mean It
Here’s the big one. If he’s not making an effort, let him know that your time is valuable. Draw your lines in the sand and STICK to them. Nothing makes a guy chase more than realizing he’s about to lose something real.
Final Thoughts: Queen Energy Only
Girl, remember: You’re not chasing him. You’re living your best life, and if he wants to be a part of it, he better step up. Play the game with confidence, and if he still doesn’t make the effort, then honey, he’s not the one. Simple as that. Now go out there and slay!